How to Support Your Grieving Friend

Watching a friend go through the grief of losing a loved one can be heartbreaking. You want to be there for them and help them through this difficult time but knowing the right thing to do or say can be challenging. As providers of cremation services in Dallas, TX., we understand you want to support your friend. While everyone handles grief differently and sometimes may need different things to help them though, we are going to talk today about some general ways you can show your support.

Create a Meaningful Care Package

Creating a care package is a wonderful way to show your friend support and help them in a practical way but suppling them with items they can use at this time. While sympathy care packages can be found already made online and in other retailers, creating a unique, personal arrangement can be a nice touch.

When it comes to adding items to your package, there are a lot of excellent choices that your friend can benefit from. Some of these include:

• Food – Your friend will most likely not be motivated to cook or even eat much at all. Adding items that are easy such as peanuts, granola or protein bars, dried fruit, and more can provide them an easy way to stay nourished.
• Daily Necessities – While shampoo and body soap don’t seem too exciting, they can be welcomed items when your friend runs out and doesn’t want to get out and head to the store to buy more.
• Comfort items -Adding in items like scented candles, fuzzy socks, a weighted blanket, or a soft cuddly stuffed animal can bring your friend a little comfort in this this difficult time.

Offer to Help Them Around the Home

Another way to help your friend is to offer to do perform chores and other tasks around the home for them. While they are grieving they may let things like washing dishes, taking the trash or other chores slack. You can step in and get these chores completed. Other things you can do are:

• Run errands for them
• Pick up groceries
• Help manage their bills
• Assist with children and/or pets

Not only will these things get done, but it will create a cleaner, more organized environment for your friend to be in which can actually lift their mental state a little.

Just Be There for Them

One of the most important things you can do as a friend is to just make sure your grieving friend knows you are there. Let them vent to you, cry on your shoulder, talk about their pain, or whatever else they may need. Don’t judge. Don’t try to “fix them”. Just listen.

If they feel up to it, take them out to lunch, a movie, or a hike in the park. Be around and let them know you are there for them in whichever way they may need.

If you would like more information about cremation services in Dallas, TX. , or resources to help those who are grieving, please feel free to reach out to us anytime and let us help you.